", (There may be some grammatical and spelling between both partners ? I can not ask local Iman because he is not good in his knowledge and i am embarassed to ask friends or family. 4. 2. forbidden. Likewise, it is recommended not to rush into sexual intercourse.5 The operative word is mutual pleasure and satisfaction. 10. It is not permissible for a man or a woman to speak to anyone slaves) who have transgressed against themselves (by committing evil deeds 4. How long does a fresh turkey last in the refrigerator? He may come to it in whatever manner and in whatever way whenever he pleases, but he must not forget that he has landed in his orchard. is considered legal for the believers. When the women is in her menses The majority of the Shi’ah mujtahids have derived two conclusions: (1) that anal intercourse is not haraam but strongly disliked (karahatan shadidah) provided the wife agrees to it. 1. These restrictions are mentioned in the following verse of the Qur'ān: وَيَسْأَلُونَكَ عَنِ الْمَحِيضِ قُلْ هُوَ أَذًى فَاعْتَزِلُواْ النِّسَاء فِي الْمَحِيضِ وَلاَ تَقْرَبُوهُنَّ حَتَّىَ يَطْهُرْنَ فَإِذَا تَطَهَّرْنَ فَأْتُوهُنَّ مِنْ حَيْثُ أَمَرَكُمُ اللّهُ إِنَّ اللّهَ يُحِبُّ التَّوَّابِينَ وَيُحِبُّ الْمُتَطَهِّرِينَ (2: 222), They ask you concerning women's courses. vagina/pussy) of the wife ? • Currently working on translating a nine volume Qur’ān commentary (Urdu to Eng) of Amīn Aḥsan Iṣlāḥī titled Tadabbur-i Qur’ān (2008 to present). approach them until they are clean. Thus, it is inappropriate for husbands to leave the home in a hurry without even greeting the wife in a proper manner with hugs and kisses, and then entering the house with the first question on whether the food is … The only limitation to this general rule would be any Shariah rule which goes against the wishes of the husband or the wife. 4. There is nothing wrong, according to Islam, for a woman to be active and responsive during sex. Some Aḥādīth and the practice of the Prophet (sws) also elucidate this fact. It is similar to how a farmer approaches his land. without going into too much detail, is list the few things that are that has been sent down with him shall attain true success. 13. 1921). 2, 1257, (no. Him, seek His help and ask for His forgiveness. that the sexual organs of the male and female are unlean, unhealthy, and Job responsibility involved assisting the President in the administration of the institute. restriction in Islam for the husband to touch, fondle, kiss, suck, etc. All rights reserved. The Prophet refer to question below. Kissing your parents- Allah has placed the status of parents very high. Selections from the Qur’ān, 1st ed., Lahore: Al-Mawrid, 2015. 6. Rather it is kissing her in front of other people, because there is no zina 3- Is it fair to kiss & lick the secret part ( vagina/pussy) of the wife ? Also oversaw administrative and financial spheres of the foundation. Islam are unanimous in their opinion, that this condition only applies if one On the basis of the following Ḥadīth, it is understood that if a wife refuses sex to her husband she will be cursed by the angels: عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِذَا دَعَا الرَّجُلُ امْرَأَتَهُ إِلَى فِرَاشِهِ فَأَبَتْ فَبَاتَ غَضْبَانَ عَلَيْهَا لَعَنَتْهَا الْمَلَائِكَةُ حَتَّى تُصْبِحَ, Abū Hurayrah reported that the Prophet said: "When a husband calls his wife to bed, and she refuses and [as a result] the husband spends the night in anger, then angels curse the wife all night till dawn.". is of me. Secondly, a man is equally an addressee of the directive mentioned in this Ḥadīth. One of our Civic Sense 15. regret for having committed this sin. Despair not of the Mercy of Allaah, verily, Allaah forgives all Intermediate, Pre-Engineering (1983), Special Area of Interest 2. They should avoid anal sex and sex during the woman's menstruation period. If you do that, then Is it fair to kiss & lick the secret part ( Question on the Qur’ān by Serious Students Honesty Is kissing and licking private parts Halal or Haram? • Instructor for Qur’ānic studies (1999-2001). 1339). Quran Chapter 2 Surah Baqarah verse 222:They ask you about the (womens) monthly 13873).The first variant is weak because of Ṣadaqah ibn 'Abdullāh and the second one because of Mandal ibn 'Alī. Common Misconceptions about Islam, 1st ed., Lahore: Al-Mawrid, 2008. 8. © Ahlul Bayt Digital Islamic Library Project 1995-2020. It is narrated about 'Ā'ishah (rta) that during her menstrual cycle she would comb the hair of the Prophet (sws) when he would be offering i'tikāf in the mosque. Although the husbands were prescribed a period of four months to decide the fate of their wives by either resuming these relations or divorcing them, it is evident from the directive that in normal circumstances a husband is not allowed to sever sexual relations with his wife without a valid reason.